Baby Princess was born on 23/06/2010 at 14:59. Weight at birth was 2430, though light but able to discharge the next day. Was actually feeling unwell the day before already, deciding whether to go hospital not. Gave up the idea as there wasn't any contractions. Around morning 9am, I started to feel pain in my tummy. At first I was unsure if it is contractions, but around 11plus, the pain increased and I even vomited the breakfast I ate. Went over to meet Mum after I prepared everything and reached hospital around 2pm. They broke the water bag after checking baby's heartbeat and baby will be arriving soon! Well, giving birth at KKH was really terrible. The doctor wasn't there and it was a mid-wife/nurse that came. What's worse was that when I was in great pain, I couldn't find the call-bell and the nurse didn't told me where was it when she left the room. I had no choice but to shout for them. Luckily one of the nurse/mid-wife heard me and came over. Just one nurse/mid-wife and my baby girl was delivered. She said luckily baby's small and its fast, or she couldn't handle it alone too. The doctor actually wanted to insert the tube into my veins in case I need any blood transfusion during delivery but after poking both my hands and inserting thick tubes, he couldn't reach my veins and me ended up having bruised hands. Only after my delivery, the other doctor managed to insert it. Glad that I didn't need to have transfusion during delivery, else I would die due to loss of blood. My blood pressure was too low after delivery, couldn't be transferred to ward until they put me on drip. Poor Mum and Zenfred gotta wait for me outside. Only till 9pm then I was transferred to ward. Oh my.. How good service they had.
Was discharged the next day, but the medical social worker wanted to see my Mum before letting me discharge. They even kept Baby's Health Booklet in case I leave. What the hell right? They're afraid that I couldn't look after Baby as a single mother -.- Went to Polyclinic to bring Princess for jaundice check the following day. Initially it was acceptable though high, so we gotta return the next day. After that it increases and we need to send her to KKH for phototherapy. She got discharged yesterday. Now going to Polyclinic for follow-up. Hopefully, the level won't rises again. Going to Polyclinic this coming friday and if it decreases, we only need to go back the following week.
Handling 3kids now is really hard and different. Zenfred tends to stick to me more, and he gets jealous easily when I'm carrying Princess. So I gotta spend more time comforting him, settling him down. Really hope to put him in the childcare soon, as he can learn more things with his brother and of course, I will be able to put my heart at ease while both the boys are in school. Trying to cope with the pressure and obstacles I'm facing.. Will get used to it after awhile. But my blog will starts to get more and more wordy in the future. With all my nags and mummy stories. Haha. Soon, everyone will get sick of reading my blog :( No choice eh, gotta find somewhere to rant. Haha.
Benfred is learning fast now. He's having no problems with A-Z and 1-10. Teaching him to recognize words now. Gave him spelling every few days. He can spell 1-6, write his own name and some short words. Though he is easier to handle than Zenfred but he can be quite a nuisance at times. Throwing tantrums, wanting this and that. As he can speak well, he often talks back. Nowadays I realize he even say things like, 'Nobody love me, Nobody play with me, Not fair'. He's only 4years old. Isn't it a little too fast saying all these? Hmm...
After such a long post, i think its time for pictures!! Shall update soon =) Stay tuned!
P/S: I'm desperate of names for my Princess. Ideas anyone? :) Xuki Yong Xue Qi 杨雪琦 ?
